Draw inspiration from others to rise together
On the morning of October 1st, International Day of Older Persons, and above all the beginning of a time of deep global paradigm changes, I take the occasion to restate my desire to place older generations at the heart of our lives. In this spirit, I encourage us to preserve the memory of what has shaped us, in order to nurture our collective story.
Guardians of our past; guarantors of our future
Each time I visit a residence, it brings me joy: the residents are like suns around which I love to gravitate. They share their “legend” with me, teach me about their lives, and above all, strengthen my beliefs. To me, they are all extraordinary, both for their unique character and their humble nature.
For me, older people call us to respect lived experience, true knowledge and the priceless value of having journeyed through the ages. They inspire honour by embodying the passage of time, the endurance of trials and the triumphs that often come after having had to contend with pain. Older adults embody both the strength and the fragility of life, yet above all remain the proof that life is the most powerful and beautiful thing, for – each in their own way – they stand as its proud witnesses.
In today’s climate, characterized by conflicts and infringements on both common and individual liberties, their voices are more precious than ever. Bringing them into the centre of collective decisions, engaging in dialogue with them rather than speaking for them, fosters a community that is more harmonious, equitable and just. A conscious shift in this direction is imperative – immediately! Acknowledging their significance, amplifying their voices and revealing the faces of those we can lean on is an immeasurable resource for reinforcing our society.
More than ever, we need reference points, both personally and collectively. We can foster this feeling of rootedness and identity when our foundations – our history, values and accomplishments, handed down by older generations – are respected and shared. Doing so offers tremendous benefits, as traditions create a valuable connection: they show us where we come from and guide the way forward. So why not fully highlight these anchors, these exemplars, these pillars, as has been done in other places?
Knowing where we come from
Indeed, in some communities, older people as keepers of tradition and knowledge are essential, and their contributions, both past and present, are valued. Their experience, far beyond mere skills and unavailable on the Internet, ensures the transmission of customs and practices. These peoples have understood that without their elders, an entire culture begins to crumble. Why not look upon older generations with the same respect and gratitude?
A change in perspective is necessary
Instead of seeking those at fault, I call for a gathering of all the forces that shape our shared imagination: governments, the media, institutions, communities, families, and each of us individually. Because every gesture, word, and image shapes our perception of aging, let’s make sure, then, to present portrayals that honor the richness and variety of life paths.
A shift in perception stems primarily from our beliefs and the way we speak, long before it manifests in tangible actions. Thought, which underlies our words and gestures, is potent and has far greater impact than we often acknowledge. Let us wield it thoughtfully by becoming attentive allies: acknowledging the worth of those who preceded us, affirming their role today and honouring their capacity to keep innovating, creating, contributing and imagining the future.
We owe them a share of our joy. Let us, in return, grant them a role worthy of their significance: a wellspring of experience, inspiration and humanity, and a living energy for today and tomorrow. Let us celebrate the art of aging… the age of living.
Draw inspiration and act accordingly
I firmly believe in the value of a more egalitarian social structure, where every individual, regardless of their status, age or rank, is as important as any other – because they are different, and therefore complementary. This is evident in Indigenous communities, where, much like a puzzle, each piece is crucial to forming the full image: a society that is rich, balanced and vibrant.
Getting there requires accepting change and learning from cultures that approach things differently, and at times more effectively. By opening up to alternative methods and collectively rising through knowledge and wisdom, isn’t this a path full of promise?
Our differences are our greatest strength. And those who seem more fragile are often the ones who soften us, revive us and illuminate us the most. They remind us of the importance of our roots and restore our confidence and hope.
Today, we need them more than ever.